Careers 101 - Funeral Director
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The Funeral Director career is a fusion of many responsibilities.
Depending on the location of your employment, your position may involve the business of funeral rites, which can entail the embalming, cremation or burial of the deceased.
Another responsibility of the job is the planning and arranging of the actual funeral ceremony.
Funeral Directors, or Morticians as they're sometimes referred to, may be called upon to perform the duties of dressing (something chosen by the family), application of makeup to enhance the appearance (for the viewing) and placing the deceased in the casket.
Being a Funeral Director is customer service at its finest!
To walk a family through their grief process while they are making incredible financial decisions takes patience and understanding.
A Funeral Director may wear many hats:
- Part counselor
- Part clergy
- Part account executive
These responsibilities, and many others, takes a person with strong character, a cool head, and a kind heart.
Yes, You Have To Go To School!
The educational requirements must be met and state board examinations are a requirement to practice in this field in many states.
Course study at a college for funeral sciences are: (This may vary college to college, but most are very similar)
Public Health and Technical:
Principles of Embalming,
Restorative Art, Microbiology for Embalmers, Principles of Embalming,
Chemistry for Embalming, Clinical Embalming, Pathology for Embalmers.
Social Sciences
History of Funeral Service, Death and Human Development, Funeral
Service Psychology and Counseling, Sociology of Funeral Service,
Comprehensive Review.
Business Management
Principles of Mathematics, Funeral Home Directing, Small Business Management, Accounting I, Funeral Home Management and Merchandising, Accounting II.
- Legal, Regulatory and Ethical Law
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Professional Ethics, Business Law; Mortuary Law; State Rules.
General Education
Communication Skills, Introduction to Science, Health Education, Anatomy, Introduction to Microbiology, Introduction to Pathology, , Introduction to Chemistry,
The aim of many schools is for students to demonstrate proper technique in:
- Being of service to the living in making funeral arrangements, establishing calling hours, counseling, and other areas of funeral service.
- Ability to demonstrate the proper technique in the safe preparation of human remains, including precautions, handling communicable disease infected tissues, embalming both autopsied and unautopsied remains.
- Ability to communicate
with the clergy of various faiths to present a dignified funeral
experience for the bereaved.
- Ability to interact with other professionals and the general public in a manner which benefits both funeral service and the public as a whole.
Burial or Cremation?
A
funeral director's job is to guide the family in making these most
difficult decisions. especially If the deceased didn't make their
wishes known before hand.
A good funeral director will provide a comprehensive guide in the discussion of burial or cremation.
It's a topic most people don't want to think about and that leaves it up to the families to discuss. These "discussions" can get very emotional.
Here's a brief guide to what options/advice could be provided.
Cremation versus Burial
- What are their personal beliefs?
- Spiritual or religious philosophies?
- Environmental philosophies?
- Convenience or simplicity?
- Cost factors?
- Cremation is a centuries old funeral rite, that is again growing in acceptance and preference. In communities where space is at a premium, more and more people are choosing cremation over burial.
- Many cultures insist on open-casket 'viewings' as a significant part of the funeral services.
- There is also, quite often, a different atmosphere in a service where the deceased was cremated versus a casket funeral.
- A
good funeral director will make sure that, which ever choice is made,
there is a service that fits the wishes of the family and friends
making the arrangements. Some people want a solemn restrained memorial,
some people want to make it more a joyful and almost festive time,
celebrating the life of the person they love.
- Do they want their guests in black? Do they want them all to go "Hawaiian?"
- Indoors? Outdoors? Food? Drinks?
Don't forget, It's their funeral!
Employment Opportunities
Many Funeral Homes are family-run, family-employed businesses. However, there are larger national chains being established where employment is available.
Employment opportunities for funeral directors are expected to be good, particularly for those who also embalm. However, mortuary science graduates may have to relocate to find jobs
Candie V , Not that I ever wanted to be a Funeral Director but I find you Hub very interesting.
I never realized that a Funeral Director had to be so well rounded in their education.
Over the years I have had many dealings with Funeral Directors and I have found that the family run businesses seem to be more sensitive to the clients requirements than the larger 'national' chain Funeral Directors. ;-)
Wow! I should have looked into this years ago. What a quiet, peaceful job. No one wanting to gossip or yak. No chance of anyone seeing you set off for lunch and wanting to come with you.
Great hub Candie :)
Froggy my dear girl, I'm just dying to meet you and take you to lunch. LOL
ummm...no thank you! and eewwww lol :D
I don't work with dead things, thank you.
Brave girl... death is a topic folks don't even like to think about let alone talk about...Eternity???
PS...Just thought I would stop by...I miss you.
WOW ! I had no idea that there was so much involved in the process of studying to be a Funeral Director, this was certainly an educating hub! =)
Hey Candie,
I think that you have tumbled on to a great series of articles related to different jobs and what each entails. You do such a good job with each of them that you would make an excellent high school counselor or career coach. Hey...just gave you another topic. LOL
Just saw this one, Candie--you know that just a few weeks ago, Tom was actually showing an interest in doing something like this?lol
I told him that's one thing that we would NOT be doing together--I just couldn't handle the sadness, and, of course, being around dead people...:(
I'm like the others--I had no idea how much went into this job--thanks for the eye-opening hub!
The funeral director that handled things for us here in Houston was SO WONDERFUL with respect to my mother's recent death, that I would recommend him highly to anyone needing such a service. He came to our home and actually talked much like a friend would have done. (It might help that his Dad is a minister...and some of that caring for people rubbed off on him?) He was not the gleepy guy in a dark suit that many people associate with that profession.
It is a smaller and more personally run operation here in Houston that we chose. The same person drove my mother's body down to McAllen where she was interred in the mausoleum next to my Dad and grandparents. Asked our permission to say a little prayer which was so nice. Ecumenical and something anyone...or most anyone...would have liked.
He wants to move back to Alaska and open his own company. That will be Houston's loss!
So this profession, if done correctly, offers SUCH a wonderful and needed service and can offer families such a good service when needed. Just thought that I would come back and share this recent personal experience.
Amen to that Candie! It is certainly an honorable and much needed profession. Also one that is in perpetual need irregardless of the state of the economy.
Like the one we happened upon in our time of need and grief. Such personalized and caring service we received. He made it much easier for us to bear. That is a gift!
Rather useful. Not sure I'd ever consider this career, though. Then again, a bad weekend in Vegas may just change that perspective. ;)
Speaking as an apprentice Funeral Director, I find this page very accurate and provides a very good picture of what a funeral director's role is. I would like to add that a certain level of maturity is also sought for by employers, and if you are a headstrong, judgemental and shallow person, you'll never make it in this career.
Cheers!
Nice work!
i was thinking about going to college to become a Embalmer, it is a hard career?
gotta love ya, gal! You do come up with the best hub about the most basic of all careers. We will all eventually be taken care of by some stranger. It is nice to think that someone with "maturity" is taking care of our shell. Doing right by us and not sending us off without some sort of respect.
I am a Funeral Director in NY. I like my job, but it is high stress! We are overworked and underpaid. Our schedule is 24/7 usually working weekends and holidays. We are on call all hours of the night and are exposed to health hazards everyday. I am very disappointed by the pay, especially since not everyone pays overtime. I've worked over 70 hours in a week and made close to minimum wage. Pathetic!!
















lyricsingray 2 years ago
Thank you, not many people would have the creativity to write about an everday occurrence. PS - 6 feet under was my all time favorite series ever! Cheers, Kimberly