Careers 101 - Funeral Director

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By Candie V

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The Funeral Director career is a fusion of many responsibilities.

Depending on the location of your employment, your position may involve the business of funeral rites, which can entail the embalming, cremation or burial of the deceased.

Another responsibility of the job is the planning and arranging of the actual funeral ceremony.

Funeral Directors, or Morticians as they're sometimes referred to, may be called upon to perform the duties of dressing (something chosen by the family), application of makeup to enhance the appearance (for the viewing) and placing the deceased in the casket.


Being a Funeral Director is customer service at its finest!

To walk a family through their grief process while they are making incredible financial decisions takes patience and understanding.

A Funeral Director may wear many hats:

  • Part counselor
  • Part clergy
  • Part account executive

These responsibilities, and many others, takes a person with strong character, a cool head, and a kind heart.

Yes, You Have To Go To School!

The educational requirements must be met and state board examinations are a requirement to practice in this field in many states.

Course study at a college for funeral sciences are: (This may vary college to college, but most are very similar)

Public Health and Technical:

Principles of Embalming, Restorative Art, Microbiology for Embalmers, Principles of Embalming, Chemistry for Embalming, Clinical Embalming, Pathology for Embalmers.

Social Sciences


History of Funeral Service, Death and Human Development, Funeral Service Psychology and Counseling, Sociology of Funeral Service, Comprehensive Review.

Business Management

Principles of Mathematics, Funeral Home Directing, Small Business Management, Accounting I, Funeral Home Management and Merchandising, Accounting II.

  • Legal, Regulatory and Ethical Law
  • Professional Ethics, Business Law; Mortuary Law; State Rules.

General Education

Communication Skills, Introduction to Science, Health Education, Anatomy, Introduction to Microbiology, Introduction to Pathology, , Introduction to Chemistry,

The aim of many schools is for students to demonstrate proper technique in:

  • Being of service to the living in making funeral arrangements, establishing calling hours, counseling, and other areas of funeral service.
  • Ability to demonstrate the proper technique in the safe preparation of human remains, including precautions, handling communicable disease infected tissues, embalming both autopsied and unautopsied remains.
  • Ability to communicate with the clergy of various faiths to present a dignified funeral experience for the bereaved.
  • Ability to interact with other professionals and the general public in a manner which benefits both funeral service and the public as a whole.

Burial or Cremation?

A funeral director's job is to guide the family in making these most difficult decisions. especially If the deceased didn't make their wishes known before hand.

A good funeral director will provide a comprehensive guide in the discussion of burial or cremation.

It's a topic most people don't want to think about and that leaves it up to the families to discuss. These "discussions" can get very emotional.

Here's a brief guide to what options/advice could be provided.

Cremation versus Burial

  • What are their personal beliefs?
  • Spiritual or religious philosophies?
  • Environmental philosophies?
  • Convenience or simplicity?
  • Cost factors?
  • Cremation is a centuries old funeral rite, that is again growing in acceptance and preference. In communities where space is at a premium, more and more people are choosing cremation over burial.
  • Many cultures insist on open-casket 'viewings' as a significant part of the funeral services.
  • There is also, quite often, a different atmosphere in a service where the deceased was cremated versus a casket funeral.
  • A good funeral director will make sure that, which ever choice is made, there is a service that fits the wishes of the family and friends making the arrangements. Some people want a solemn restrained memorial, some people want to make it more a joyful and almost festive time, celebrating the life of the person they love.
  • Do they want their guests in black? Do they want them all to go "Hawaiian?"
  • Indoors? Outdoors? Food? Drinks?

Don't forget, It's their funeral!

Employment Opportunities

Many Funeral Homes are family-run, family-employed businesses. However, there are larger national chains being established where employment is available.

Employment opportunities for funeral directors are expected to be good, particularly for those who also embalm. However, mortuary science graduates may have to relocate to find jobs

lyricsingray 2 years ago

Thank you, not many people would have the creativity to write about an everday occurrence. PS - 6 feet under was my all time favorite series ever! Cheers, Kimberly

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agvulpes Level 3 Commenter 2 years ago

Candie V , Not that I ever wanted to be a Funeral Director but I find you Hub very interesting.

I never realized that a Funeral Director had to be so well rounded in their education.

Over the years I have had many dealings with Funeral Directors and I have found that the family run businesses seem to be more sensitive to the clients requirements than the larger 'national' chain Funeral Directors. ;-)

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frogdropping 2 years ago

Wow! I should have looked into this years ago. What a quiet, peaceful job. No one wanting to gossip or yak. No chance of anyone seeing you set off for lunch and wanting to come with you.

Great hub Candie :)

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agvulpes Level 3 Commenter 2 years ago

Froggy my dear girl, I'm just dying to meet you and take you to lunch. LOL

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Candie V Hub Author 2 years ago

Lyrics! Well, it needed to be done!! Maybe enrollment will increase?! I tried to present it well.. not such a pleasant topic as new thigh-high boots! Thanks for visiting and commenting!

Ag! They do have a lot of education to go thru, don't they? I wanted to say thank you, and you know what for!!

Frog! Oh! It is a profession with a guarantee of clientele, no doubt about it! I'd watch out for ag, tho.. he's up to something!! Thank you! I do adore you!

Ag! Again! I don't think this is a "find a date" hub. On the other hand.. if you're available.. and frog isn't.. I am!

Janetta 2 years ago

ummm...no thank you! and eewwww lol :D

I don't work with dead things, thank you.

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Candie V Hub Author 2 years ago

Janetta! Ah, well it's not for everybody! I don't think I'd do well with it either, but I wanted to put out there what this profession could entail!

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Larry Lathrop 2 years ago

Brave girl... death is a topic folks don't even like to think about let alone talk about...Eternity???

PS...Just thought I would stop by...I miss you.

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Candie V Hub Author 2 years ago

Larry! It isn't a topic I've seen covered, and while I don't know what it's like to do this job, I wanted to share it with the respect it deserves, and the respect those that do it deserve.

I miss you too! You've been busy with so many other things of late!

Pachuca213 2 years ago

WOW ! I had no idea that there was so much involved in the process of studying to be a Funeral Director, this was certainly an educating hub! =)

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Candie V Hub Author 2 years ago

Hey JJ!! I have missed you! I didn't realize it either! There are so many jobs I've never bothered to think about, that people do every day, so I'm trying to highlight a few. Ya never know, someone out there may be looking for just this job! Thanks for commenting!! I'll write soon!

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Peggy W Level 8 Commenter 2 years ago

Hey Candie,

I think that you have tumbled on to a great series of articles related to different jobs and what each entails. You do such a good job with each of them that you would make an excellent high school counselor or career coach. Hey...just gave you another topic. LOL

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Candie V Hub Author 2 years ago

Peggy! HA! I've given out so many hub topics it's nice to get one back! Thank you! LOLOL!!

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TamCor Level 2 Commenter 2 years ago

Just saw this one, Candie--you know that just a few weeks ago, Tom was actually showing an interest in doing something like this?lol

I told him that's one thing that we would NOT be doing together--I just couldn't handle the sadness, and, of course, being around dead people...:(

I'm like the others--I had no idea how much went into this job--thanks for the eye-opening hub!

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Candie V Hub Author 2 years ago

Tam! Nooo, really? Tom was thinking about this one? I think he'd be great at it, but not thinking it's a 'team job' for you... unless you get to make cookies for the 'viewings'? He'd have to wear a suit and tie, unless you start a 'drive thru' service, then he can wear his plaid flannel shirt and jeans. He could play his guitar and sing songs for the services! Hmmm.. I need to do a hub on "Breaking into the Nashville music scene" for him!

Thank you both, for your love!

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Peggy W Level 8 Commenter 2 years ago

The funeral director that handled things for us here in Houston was SO WONDERFUL with respect to my mother's recent death, that I would recommend him highly to anyone needing such a service. He came to our home and actually talked much like a friend would have done. (It might help that his Dad is a minister...and some of that caring for people rubbed off on him?) He was not the gleepy guy in a dark suit that many people associate with that profession.

It is a smaller and more personally run operation here in Houston that we chose. The same person drove my mother's body down to McAllen where she was interred in the mausoleum next to my Dad and grandparents. Asked our permission to say a little prayer which was so nice. Ecumenical and something anyone...or most anyone...would have liked.

He wants to move back to Alaska and open his own company. That will be Houston's loss!

So this profession, if done correctly, offers SUCH a wonderful and needed service and can offer families such a good service when needed. Just thought that I would come back and share this recent personal experience.

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Candie V Hub Author 2 years ago

Ah Peggy! I'm so sorry for your loss! (Hugs!)

You had a great experience and I think that's one reason I wrote this in my series. After Greg's death and visiting the mausoleum where he is interred, has given me a chance to talk with several people in the cemetery he's in. It's a vital job and good people are needed. Thank you for sharing your experience with me, and maybe it will reach the next person who fits this job well!

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Peggy W Level 8 Commenter 2 years ago

Amen to that Candie! It is certainly an honorable and much needed profession. Also one that is in perpetual need irregardless of the state of the economy.

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Candie V Hub Author 2 years ago

Ah.. "Job Security" is, indeed, a perk of the career! We just need more honorable, ethical and compassionate people!

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Peggy W Level 8 Commenter 2 years ago

Like the one we happened upon in our time of need and grief. Such personalized and caring service we received. He made it much easier for us to bear. That is a gift!

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oscillationatend 2 years ago

Rather useful. Not sure I'd ever consider this career, though. Then again, a bad weekend in Vegas may just change that perspective. ;)

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Candie V Hub Author 2 years ago

O! You could do funeral arrangements for people with pets! You have them lining up for blocks!

I'd love to see just how bad a weekend would have to be to draw you into this profession!

Sarastro 2 years ago

Speaking as an apprentice Funeral Director, I find this page very accurate and provides a very good picture of what a funeral director's role is. I would like to add that a certain level of maturity is also sought for by employers, and if you are a headstrong, judgemental and shallow person, you'll never make it in this career.

Cheers!

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Candie V Hub Author 2 years ago

Yeah! Thank you Sarastro! I really wanted to give this the honest and respectful overview it deserves, and I'm glad I was able to do that. Thank you for adding the addition of "Maturity" to this. I can see where that would be a 'must'! Thanks for visiting and taking the time to comment!

Cheers to you, too!

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James H Patton 19 months ago

Nice work!

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Candie V Hub Author 19 months ago

Thank you James!

dominique 16 months ago

i was thinking about going to college to become a Embalmer, it is a hard career?

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Candie V Hub Author 16 months ago

Hi Dominique! Hmmm... I suppose 'hard' is something different to everyone. I would imagine you'd have to have the ability to understand you are working with bodies of people that were once loved by somebody.. and I would imagine working on children would be hardest of all. If you are that kind of a person, then you'd be able to treat that task with the respect and professionalism they deserve. You should take some time to talk to some people in your area who do this profession and see if it's one you'd 'enjoy'! Good luck!

My Kat Walkin' 16 months ago

gotta love ya, gal! You do come up with the best hub about the most basic of all careers. We will all eventually be taken care of by some stranger. It is nice to think that someone with "maturity" is taking care of our shell. Doing right by us and not sending us off without some sort of respect.

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Candie V Hub Author 16 months ago

Well thank you MKW! Have you found another profession to switch to? I'm thinking you're gonna pass on this (Maybe it's the 'maturity' comment?) Ha! Anyhoo... none of us gets off this planet alive - as you said, so this is an important job - no doubt about it!

nyundertaker 5 months ago

I am a Funeral Director in NY. I like my job, but it is high stress! We are overworked and underpaid. Our schedule is 24/7 usually working weekends and holidays. We are on call all hours of the night and are exposed to health hazards everyday. I am very disappointed by the pay, especially since not everyone pays overtime. I've worked over 70 hours in a week and made close to minimum wage. Pathetic!!

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Candie V Hub Author 5 months ago

It's unfortunate that wages often do not match the work we do, or the responsiblities of the careers w choose. Knowing you provide a most valuable service, and you really do enjoy it, is a rare thing. So, my questions for you would be.. Is there a need for more employees in your area, and is this typical in this field in most areas? Thank you for your visit and comment!

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